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Stop Comparing. Start Noticing.

The only useful comparison is with yesterday.

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TL;DR

Your only useful comparison is with yesterday. Mute the accounts that make you feel worse. Notice your own progress instead.

Why this matters

The NHS lists 'take notice' — being aware of the present — as one of the five ways to wellbeing. It's the opposite of doomscrolling.

Source: NHS — Mental wellbeing tips

Social media shows you highlights. Someone else's Sunday marathon is not your Tuesday walk. The only person worth measuring against is who you were last week.

  • 1Mute the accounts that make you feel worse — even the "inspiring" ones.
  • 2After each session, note one thing better than last time. One hill you didn't stop on. One minute longer.
  • 3Progress lives in the small stuff. Look for it.
  • 4Say it out loud: "That was better than last time."

COMMON MISTAKES

  • ×Only comparing to elite runners on Instagram.
  • ×Waiting for a big milestone before you notice progress.
  • ×Deleting all social media in a rage — you'll re-download by Friday.

LEVEL UP

  • Follow five accounts of ordinary people doing ordinary things well.
  • Keep a 'proud of' note in your phone — one line a day.
  • Compare your week to your month ago, not your minute ago.
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Your next step

After your next session, write one sentence about what was better than the time before.

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